ABOUT ME

I’m Anthony Messina.

I help men live in radical alignment with who they truly are and who God created them to be..

Not from theory. From experience. Because I know what it feels like to chase everything that’s supposed to make you happy—and still feel like something’s missing. I used to live in extremes. Either hustling to prove I was enough… Or collapsing under the weight of everything I was carrying inside. I had the drive, the ambition, the vision—but I was constantly overthinking, second-guessing, and burning out. I felt like I had to control everything to make life work. And when it came to love? I gave my all. I loved deeply. And I lost hard. There was one relationship in particular that changed everything. I was all in—heart, body, soul. I made her my compass. Every decision filtered through: Would this bring me closer to her? But she never chose me fully. And when she finally walked away, I felt like I lost my future. That heartbreak wrecked me—but it also revealed me. It forced me to confront the deeper truth: I wasn’t living for me. I wasn’t living for God. I was living for validation. Approval. Safety. That was the crack where God came in. I began rebuilding—first from survival, then from spirit. I stopped chasing perfection and started choosing presence. I stopped waiting to feel whole and started anchoring in truth. And I discovered something I had forgotten: When a man lives in alignment with God, his power becomes unstoppable. That realization became my mission. I created Legacy Leader to help other men stop performing and start embodying. To rise without burning out. To lead without losing themselves. To build legacies that feel just as good on the inside as they look on the outside. Now I coach, speak, write, and create containers that help men return home to themselves. Whether it’s inside my group programs, 1-on-1 coaching, or retreat spaces—I hold men to a higher standard, because I see who they really are. You don’t need more strategies. You need alignment. You need truth. You need God. And when you have that— You become untouchable.